The Furobiker

It was due from a long time. I think it was autumn that all this had started.
I really had been so careless and didn't think about the consequences.
I think I should have given her more respect initially.
U mean so much to me and I really didn't gave it a Damm!!!! hhhuuuff
Aneways all what I want to say
is that I am really sorry for all that happened
and I mean it....
yes from the bottom of my heart
I know that sometimes I really played the fool with U
but I really didn't meant anything wrong or offensive...
I always Loved u and will continue to do so...
U are my first love... do u know that????
But it seems that
to you all are equal...
U don't have anything special for me
that really sucks!!!!
but lately I haven't been nice and i know that...
But what I just want from ur side...
is to admit that u too have feelings fro me..
its really important...
I wanna spend my whole life with u.....








I know a did a mistake by not shutting down u for more than a month(What !!!!!!!!!!)
yes shutting down
u didn't deserve to work so hard for nothing
and what would have I done had something happened to u...
I am sorry darling
U are my Comp.... and u know very well that i can't live without u
and I Love U..... my first love :D
I swear that in future I will do nothing to hurt u....
I love u babes :-*

Abhishek khanna
TECHNEX 2006

Don’t get me wrong. New Year’s Resolutions can be a great idea. A new year, a new you. Thinner, fitter, less smokey… It’s all deeply compelling. I've only got one question. Why don't they work?

The problem with New Year’s Resolutions is we focus on making the resolution not on keeping it. You get the satisfaction from making the resolution. You’ve succeeded!
Not only that, but we tell family, friends and work colleagues. ‘No thank you, I’ve given up…’ and even more rewards come our way as they admire our willpower and determination. Is it any wonder that our brain decides that making the resolution is enough? Keeping your plan going seems so much less important after a while. All that gratification, just for making a resolution!

Reward before effort leaks motivation
Motivation is a fuel that will drive you towards completion of your goal. But recognition, attention and admiration before achievement tear holes in your motivation tank causing leakage. Happily, there is an easy way to prevent leakage and develop a powerful drive to accomplish your goals.

The power of secrets to generate motivation force Showing off your ideas before accomplishing them leaks energy like air escaping from a balloon. But keeping them secret multiplies the pressure, firing your motivation engine to higher and higher speeds. If you treat positive attention from others as a by-product, a happy addition after completing your aims, you will be astounded at what you can accomplish.

How to make New Year's resolutions that work
I’m going to make a small suggestion. Actually, it’s two suggestions. Firstly, don’t tell anybody what you are planning to do. Keep it secret until it has gained momentum and even then, only tell those you have to. And secondly, why wait for January 1? Start, or stop doing whatever it is you plan to do right now. Or failing that, start your resolution on January 2, or 3, or 10.
Make a secret New Year's resolution and see how long it is before people notice. Notice how good you feel with your secret inside as it slowly dawns on people what you’ve done. Go on. Show them what you are capable of.

Abhishek Khanna
Mech engg IT BHU

To The Prime Minister of India

Respected Mrs Sonia Gandhi...

This is to request from you, in the name of the people of India, that you kindly stop demolitions that are currently going on in New Delhi against "unauthorized" colonies.I know some of these structures did not undergo the "formal clearance process request" of bribing DDA/MCD officials, but may I remind you that it is not unauthorized to build one's homes in one's own country?Can you please UNDERSTAND that?
I'm NOT supporting the ones who have built unsafe and hazardous structures (that, sadly includes your unsafe flyovers).These may be persecuted.But can you please STOP destroying things under the excuse that they are UNAUTHORIZED? Do you know what that means? That means,out of Delhi's 2000 colonies over 50% of them at 1,422 are "UNAUTHORIZED".Ofcourse by "unauthorized" you mean without the "formal clearance process request".Did you ever wonder what happens when someone actually tries to get the "formal clearance process request"?I know that the plush farmhomes that you and other government officials own don't have to undergo

"formal clearance process requests"=(DDA/MCD/IAS Bribe Approvals),

but can you imagine what your own native country Italy's cityscape would have looked like if everyone had to undergo "clearances"?

New Delhi has more open spaces,wider,better alleys and lanes than cramped and crowded Rome, but you stilll wish to DESTROY in the name of "UNAUTHORIZED".I'm sorry as a responsible, honest taxpaying citizen, I must disagree with you on that, and so I request you to end that process, now!If you cannot build, WHY destroy?I and the people who live in so many of Delhi's residential cum commercial areas(why does your government call them "colonies"?I thought the colonizers left India 55 years ago?)pay regular taxes, yet do not get simple civic amenities such as decent roads, power and public transport infrastructure.Why is that?

I think we must bring your attention to the kind of REAL unauthorized activities that strangely you seem to overlook.Here's an indicative list:

1:The Government of India's personnel accepting bribes and prostitutes from the KGB, CIA, Saddam Hussein, or anyone else in public is "UNAUTHORIZED".People building
businesses and homes in their own country:NOT unauthorized /illegal.It is EASY to destroy but very difficult to build, trust me on that.

2:The builder/mafia nexus that will capitalize on such demolition drives.They will make money helping rebuild.This is unauthorized.People building their OWN
businesses and homes in their own country using hard earned saving:NOT UN"AUTHOR"IZED.

3:New Delhi was beginning to resemble a world class city, with the Metro, good roads etc.coming up.But there are people like DSC on NH8, and other private
subcontractors digging up roads, pavements and more, slowing development.THIS IS UNAUTHORIZED.People building businesses and homes in their own
country:not illegal.You need to DESTROY their slow pace.You need to ensure that the ones not doing their jobs, get FIRED, not suspended/fined/sent to jail.

4:People in many subcities in New Delhi do not get power/water and bus services.This is unauthorized.People building businesses and homes in their own neighborhood,not
illegal.You need to ensure that the ones not doing their jobs, get FIRED, not suspended/fined/sent to jail.

5:There are thousands of plush farmhomes hosting weddings for the power rich, right in the midst of Delhi's subcities, in your OWN MCD/Banquet halls.While this is a
revenue generator, THIS IS UNAUTHORIZED, as it is illegal for loud music etc. to play in the midst of residential areas.

6:You are equipping these demolition gangs with weapons, pickaxes, bulldozers and weapons.They don't EVEN look like government functionaries wearing uniforms, because they are ANARCHIC Haryanvi Jats goons, belonging to the buildr nexus, who are targetting specific ethnic communities and cultures.Which is why your demolition drive resembles the Sikh riots of 1984, whence the Congress Government led mobs ,which was in power, back then, as now, and killed as many as 50,000 innocent sikhs!The world was witness to that.This is unauthorized.People building businesses and homes in their own country:NOT unauthorized /illegal.

7:Inspite of over 50,000 being killed by mobs,the same Congresss Party babus are causing yet another subtle genocide now, but NOT ONE CONGRESS person guilty of instigating these mobs has been executed!This is unauthorized.People building businesses and homes in their own country:NOT unauthorized.

And now let me give you a little heads up:

The people of India have more powers ,than say, murdered innocents in Tiannamen Square in China.There are proceedings currently underway to move the guilty to where they belong.Do not mess with the peopl of India.I give you the following examples from history:
1:Hitler 2:Attila the Hun.3:Julius Caesar.4:Pol Pot.5:George Bush
In most cases, the person in question had to undergo hell, later.In light of the above examples, I strongly urge you to reconsider using politically incorrect such words as "UNAUTHORIZED", since in a democracy it is supposed to be people who have authorization, and to.I also request thta you put an end to the demolition mobs right away, demolish AND improve the violators, builders,structures (including some government structures such as flyovers and roads which are unsafe), nexus and corrupt babus
Sincerely yours
ABHISHEK KHANNA

Well i was out on EDUCATIONAL tour( read Entertainment) during this winter break.... this idea struck me while ideling on the beaches of GOA... and well some of us started a survey that.... which honeymooning couples were lovebirds and which were made to marry by those marriage councilors( read old ladies whom we only see in this or that marriage... and who always shows rishteys for u wenever they meet ur parents)
But the catch was..the decision was to be made without asking them.. by just observation..

well u need to just put a bit of ur ear on the conversation going on and try to concentrate on the target...

Target 1: Lady in red and a baby hippo with him.. was probably looking a doctor from his dumb looks... they all become like that due to over studying..
They arrived on the beach... lady folded her pants up.. she also folded the pants of her hubby...(interesting)... then some of us went near them just trying to listen what was happening... as expected..the man was afraid of water.. thot the waves would carry him deep.....
as usual..we started laughung HA HA HA.. the same old mocking style.. and they went away from there( feeling a bit embarrased)
Then they went to take a ride on water scooter( Deja vu..esha deol in dhoom .. paani pe huudi mar rahi thi)...but wait.. the jumbo was afraid that the scooter may turn upside down.. despite being convinced furiously by the gal and the scooter walla bhayya.. the fatso was afraid.. and lo we all again started HA HAH HA...
this time the gal really shouted very badly on the man....hey we never intended to cause any divorces... so this case was closed..
Unanimous Result.. obvious .. Arranged Knot..

Target 2:we were in chest deep water.. waves were coming to and fro.. suddenly a big wave broke on us.. and we were under water for a couple of seconds... sudddenly a screaming sound of"VISHAL VISHAL" came from the shore....
this time the case was just opposite.. cool type banda.. and a really afraid bandi...bandi continuously shouting from 2 meteres away even from wet sand...' vishal meri sunte hi nahi.. kuch ho gaya to... bahar aa jao...VISHALLLLL"
banda was really getting irritated.. as we were doing HA HA HA... in a few moments banda got out.. and furiously took her from hand.. and went away....
Unanimous Result.... Arranged knot...

Target 3:Location change...Anjuna beach...we saw banda in water...knee deep.. and bandi sipping beer on the shore...
wen we again passed that place( Coincidently).. both of them getting photographed in cozy poses in water...
Result... obvious..


uff ye arranged marriages...

The world has changed over the years. Years ago, a child is expected to do everything his or her parents tell them to do. But time has changed, culture has evolved, and now, it’s quite normal for a child to go against their parent’s wishes. Not right, but normal. Arrange marriages are very common among us Indians. Teenagers nowadays like going out with the opposite sex. Dating is very common, and usually, this is their way of getting to know the opposite sex.

One of the big downfalls of arrange marriages is that the parents usually choose who they feel is a “perfect” mate for their child. But the child might feel otherwise. Personal freedom to choose who to marry is crossed and parents are often persistent of their decisions. Guilt trips are made, and kids are forced to comply. The relationship between the parents and the child must be very close for them to really know what kind of mate their child wants. But if their relationship is based on an “I’m your father, do as I say…” relationship, this kind is usually based on lies because the child is too scared to share their innermost feelings.

Most parents also look at money, status, and background rather than the most important aspect which is the true person’s character. Investigating the person’s true nature is critical because this is how they treat the people they encounter with everyday and in addition, the way they will treat your child.

Arrange marriages also give out a message that basically translates to “I don’t trust you to choose your own mate; I feel you don’t know what you want. Therefore, I’m going to help you.” Not only kids but people alike need to feel independent once in a while to let themselves know that they’re standing on their own and they sometimes need that boost of pride.

When children want to make their own decisions, it doesn’t mean that parent’s don’t have a say in
anything. They can participate by making little decisions, but it’s best to leave the big ones to the people that really are most involved in the situation and that will be most affected on.
Arrange marriages can be seen in different points of view; a feeling of knowledge and responsibility from their parents, and a feeling of personal freedom and boundaries for the child. Both can only accomplish and get the respect they crave and want from each other if both compromise and respect each others wishes. Parents these days can’t expect to have their child obey everything they tell them to do. Marriage is such a big thing, and it ideally lasts until your last breath, and it shouldn’t be rushed nor should it be forced. You have to have the chemistry needed to make a marriage work. It’s not a money, status, or background issue. It’s an attraction, connection, and understanding issue.

Marriage is hard enough when you have known the person for a long time. Imagine how hard it can be when you barely know the person. At first glance, many would arrive at the conclusion that arranged marriages never work. I don't know.
I think marriage is really the art of compromise. I don't think two stubborn, headstrong folks can ever be in a happy union. Marriage succeeds when someone plays second fiddle. Somebody has to back off.

Well who wants to get married and be locked for his whole life.... and basically this article was writen to empathise with one of my best friends.. who is gonna tie an arranged knot.. in a few months time....